what wud u call a person who thinks his sleep is more important than his sick son who is vomiting thru the nite?

what wud u call a person who thinks disturbing the doctor in the middle of the night is not good even if his son is getting dehydrated and suffering pain and vomiting in his sleep?

What will you call a person who doesnt help his wife in looking after their 2 yr twins even when they are sick cos his sleep is more important than anything?

what will you call a person who eats food from his kids plates and never feeds them from his?

What will you call a person who is sarcastic about everything and is selfish even when it comes to his own kids?

What will you call such a persons mother who hits her own 2 year old grandson against the wall just like that?

what do you call a person who is scared to take a decision regarding her own kids health when her husband is not bothered?

what do you say to a couple who dont want to work at their marriage cos the expectations are different apart from saying why did u have kids if you cant make it work?

what can i say to them that can make life easier that I havent already said?