I dont know whether i shud feel betrayed and depressed or be understanding.

My fiance postponed our wedding cos his company was not letting him go for his own wedding! And it is not just a few days, but 6 months!!!!!!!This when everything has been arranged back home!!!!!He says that they were subtly hinting that he will lose his job if he goes on leave. They wanted him to stay back and work on a project. If this happened in India, I can believe it cos our employers are notoriously known for bossing around! But in Canada, for an MNC company----Its completely unknown of!

And moreover, dont u think that after working for 6 years with a company where you have a great work record, u wudnt be so easily scared of losing your job considering they need you????????????

I am so upset and depressed about it since It was a complete shock. I had organised my leave and work. Bought new clothes, my parents were booking the halls,getting gifts...........everything was nearly done and this happens!!!!!!!!

And he expects me to take it and be understanding about it! I dont want to be understanding because i feel betrayed and hurt and disappointed cos my dreams are broken. How can i trust a man who breaks his promises? I dont even know now whether i want to continue with the postponed marriage plans............

My family is scared I am going to break it off! and I am very tempted to, no doubts about it. But I like him too. I know that I cant get a better man than him for me! And no, I am not being pessimistic. He is the kind of man who I want, he likes me immensely, has loads of patience to deal with my tantrums-especially since he broke the news to me, likes and respects my parents too, well-settled, gentleman etc etc.............but it still hurts. I think I expected him to put his foot down and stand up to his bosses and tell them, they cant make him do that..........but am I right? Would that have been the correct thing for him to do?

I feel like giving him grief, not talking to him,just sit and cry................and he doesnt understand any of this!!!!!!!!!!!